○ In the church – change your ways of doing things, your behavior and your entire way of thinking base it on the word of God
○ In view of others – where you have messed up ask for forgiveness and change your actions should show repentance is key – when others have wronged you – forgive them and move on because each day has it own troubles
○ In view of relationships – in your home i.e your spouse your children or your parents or your siblings or your in-laws or at your workplace. Whether it’s your wife, your husband, your sister, your brother, your mom, your dad, your mom in-law, your father in-law or your boss, your colleague – don’t expect them to change when the change must first begin with you changing your attitude your ways of thinking, move away from negativity and seek positive ways of dealing with issues affecting you and your loved ones, change your ways of always pointing a finger at the other person while 3 more fingers are pointing at your at that same time
○ In view of a post I received on heritage day to make a change in the world – it all starts with you in your small world your society, your community, your school, your church, your workplace, your city, your country before you can conquer the world. Little does much because it is the little effort that add up to much results. Remember you are not living for yourself alone but also your surroundings.
Now I see the bigger picture of what change needs to happen for all of us – Remember it is never about the other person but it all starts with you and don’t forget to invite God ! Be blessed. By Thami Manamela